Insightful Player® Stories

Welcome to the heart and soul of the Insightful Player® initiative . On this page, you will find a special collection of inspiring stories about some first-rate human beings. I look at these wonderful players as the standard bearers in the sports industry for integrity, courage, kindness, generosity, humility, perseverance, gumption and grace. I have tremendous respect and affection for each one of them.

I would like to pay a special tribute to Roger Staubach. Roger was the very first person “to sign on to” the Insightful Player® initiative. Once Roger joined the Insightful Player® team, the floodgates opened. Thank you Roger!

I also want to pay tribute to Kevin Reilly and Blaise Winter. They both joined the Insightful Player® roster shortly after Roger and they were both very, very supportive. Thank you Kevin! Thank you Blaise!

Scroll down to read Roger’s article below, or select any of the following players listed in alphabetical order. We hope you are truly inspired by their stories!


Roger Staubach, NFL GreatLaunches the Premiere Insightful Player® article!

The premier Insightful Player® team member, Roger Staubach, is an NFL Hall of Famer, former Dallas Cowboys quarterback, dedicated family man, and high-integrity business man…

> Read more about Roger Staubach


New England Patriots’ Kyle Arrington - Profoundly Grateful Sports Taught Him to Control His Temper and God Taught Him to Control His Plan

Kyle Arrington’s mother feared that her son’s explosive temper would be his undoing. Fighting with classmates got him twice suspended from middle school, and his parents were afraid he would one day lash out too far – and end up in jail.

> Read more about Kyle Arrington



NFL Free Agent Rocky BoimanFinds Lasting Success on the Other Side of Failure

For NFL linebacker Rocky Boiman, self-motivation starts first thing in the morning – literally. On his bathroom mirror are dozens of Post-its with motivational messages he’s scribbled down to keep himself striving for improvement. “My finest moment is yet to come,” says one. Another says “I am grateful for…”

> Read more about Rocky Boiman


Saint Louis Rams’ Jason Brown – A Champion Who Surrenders to His Faith Evokes the Same in Others, On and Off the Field

When Jason Brown played football in high school, he came home from practice too exhausted to do his homework. But he knew that schoolwork was important. His own grandfather had led the charge to desegregate schools in his community. And both parents had instilled in him the value of hard work and education. So he found a way to fit it in. He set his alarm for 3 a.m. and studied by lamplight until he got it all done.

> Read more about Jason Brown


NFL Free Agent Danny Clark – Leaves a Positive Legacy Every Time… He Leaves a Room!

Every morning when Danny Clark wakes up, he decides to be happy. He has developed the habit of mentally setting an internal reset button when things go awry…

> Read more about Danny Clark


Pittsburgh Steelers’ Jerricho Cotchery – Gives it All He’s Got, Becoming the Man God Created Him to Be

Raised as the second-youngest of 13 children in Birmingham, Alabama, Jerricho Cotchery did a fair amount of learning by example – both good and bad — early on. “I watched everything going on around me,” he now says. “I still made my fair share of mistakes. But, I was able to learn from those mistakes at a young age and I’m very thankful for that…”

> Read more about Jerricho Cotchery


Detroit Lions’ Rashied Davis – Exemplifies the Immense Power of the Human Spirit

Rashied Davis had to hit the floor to dodge bullets in his South Central L.A. home. His father was murdered by gang members at a McDonald’s when he was eight; he grew up around drugs, violence and poverty…

> Read more about Rashied Davis


NFL Free Agent James Dearth – A Gentle Giant Living a Purpose-Driven Life

Before he became a Christian, James Dearth was like a Mack truck plowing through a red light – nothing was going to stop him from reaching his goal of winning football games…

> Read more about James Dearth


NFL Free Agent Chris Draft – Astounding Dedication to Strengthen Others Improves the World Around Him

He founded the Chris Draft Family Foundation, focusing on the overarching themes of education, healthy lifestyles, character development, personal responsibility, self-discipline and physical fitness. He has received a range of awards for his philanthropic and charitable efforts, including the NFL Alumni Spirit Award. He was recognized on the floor of the Georgia General Assembly for outstanding contributions to young people, Georgia communities and the state….

> Read more about Chris Draft


NFL Free Agent Heath Evans - A Champion For His Wife, His Teammates, And Children All Over The World

When Heath Evans was growing up, his ex-Marine father was open and honest with his son about choices in life he regretted, hoping to pass on the lessons he had learned. Heath took his father’s advice to heart…

> Read more about Heath Evans


San Diego Chargers’ Antonio Garay – Nurtured by Lifelong Family ties, He Uses Injury and Adversity as Motivation to Improve

Antonio Garay comes from a family of athletes. His father played college and pro football; his mother played collegiate tennis and softball. His brother and sister…

> Read more about Antonio Garay


Houston Texans’ Jarvis Green – Determination to Learn From Adversity Fosters Deep Rooted Resilience and Profound Growth

For his sense of self-discipline, Jarvis Green thanks his parents. For perseverance, he credits his high school coach. And for the physical endurance that has helped him to become a world-class professional athlete, he acknowledges…

> Read more about Jarvis Green


Legendary Patriots Quarterback Steve Grogan - Set the Gridiron on Fire with Robust Determination and Awe-inspiring Stamina

“One thing I realized is that humility is the number one asset for someone in a job like mine. It’s hard when someone tells you you’re not good enough anymore and then sits you on the bench,”

> Read more about Steve Grogan


Washington Redskins Legend Ken Harvey – An Outstanding Role Model; Gains a Boatload of Wisdom From Every Experience, Including Mistakes

Ken Harvey believes in second chances. “Mistakes happen,” says the former linebacker for the Phoenix Cardinals and the Washington Redskins and current Washington Redskins Director of Responsibility….

> Read more about Ken Harvey


Jacksonville Jaguars’ Aaron Kampman -Devout Faith, Love of Family and Strength of Character Have Seen Him Through the Best of Times and Very Worst of Times

Aaron Kampman remembers vividly the moment a few years ago when he received the shocking news that his high school coach, Ed Thomas, had just been fatally shot. The event was inconceivable to nearly everyone affected by it. As Aaron explains, “Parkersburg, Iowa is a town of 1800 people. Things like this just don’t happen there..

> Read more about Aaron Kampman


Atlanta Falcons’ Reggie “Reverend” Kelly – Modern Day Prophet Calls Forth the Best in Others and Himself

Reggie Kelly embraces every setback with boundless determination, grace and grit. He is a man of God who calls forth the best in everyone he meets..

> Read more about Reggie “Reverend” Kelly

Tampa Bay Buccaneers’ Myron Lewis- A Dedicated Role Model Who Fully Embraces Family, Friends, Teammates and Those In Need

When Myron Lewis was growing up, there was no shortage of positive role models surrounding him. Raised in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, in a two-parent household with lots of siblings, he experienced an upbringing that emphasized sharing and caretaking.

> Read more about Myron Lewis


New England Patriots’ Devin McCourty – Leveraged “Speed Bumps” to Pave the Way to Tremendous Success and Enduring Inspiration

“I worked out and lifted weights and did everything I could do, because I said to myself, ‘There is no way that I’m not going to play next year.’”

> Read more about Devin McCourty

Tennessee Titans’ Jason McCourty – An Exceptional Role Model Who Pushes Himself to the Limit in Honor of His Parents

Whatever your dream is, make sure that everything you’re doing is contributing to your opportunity to make it…

> Read more about Jason McCourty

Denver Broncos Legend Karl MecklenburgAll-Pro Author and Speaker Inspiring Long Term Positive Change in Individuals and Teams

When Karl Mecklenburg was on the junior varsity squad, a tough football coach sentenced him to a week of grueling workout drills…

> Read more about Karl Mecklenburg


 Former NFL Player: Houston Texans, New Orleans Saints and Denver Broncos Billy Miller - Avoided Major Fall Letting God Wow Him On and Off the Field

By the third year of his football career, Billy Miller was living recklessly, partying and spending money, trying to keep up with the older guys. How he caught himself before a major fall, and transformed his life to one of focus and purpose, is an inspiring story…

> Read more about Billy Miller


Patriots Hall of Famer Steve Nelson - A Passionate Leader Who is an Ultimate Teammate As a Player, Coach and Person

Being a good role model is not somebody taking them to the ice cream store every Saturday; it’s someone who sits down and tells them to knock it off, or don’t do that, or that’s not the right choice.”

> Read more about Steve Nelson


Jacksonville Jaguars’ Montell Owens - Hard-Driving Hunger to Be Hist Best Puts Him on the High Road on and off the Field

Montell Owens’ path to the NFL wasn’t easy. He got there through sheer determination and hard work…

> Read more about Montell Owens


Former NFL Player Kevin Reilly - Transformed Tragedy into an Inspiring, Purpose-Driven Life

If Academy Awards were given to remarkable people who transformed personal tragedy into an awe inspiring life, Insightful Player® Kevin Reilly would win with no contest…

> Read more about Kevin Reilly


NFL Free Agent Tony Richardson – God Driven Life Makes Him a Champion On and Off the Field

Tony Richardson spent his early childhood in Frankfurt, Germany, where his father was stationed in the U.S. Army. What the other children there called football was the sport Americans call soccer; the only American football he saw was on television until his family moved back to the U.S…..

> Read more about Tony Richardson


Former NFL Player: Baltimore Ravens and Indianapolis Colts Gerome Sapp - Enduring Resilience and an Open-minded Approach are the Keys to His Success

Growing up in inner-city Houston, there were times when Gerome Sapp and his siblings had to cope without water or electricity. Other children in those circumstances might develop an embittered view, but for Gerome, it was formative to his remarkably positive outlook…

> Read more about Gerome Sapp


New England Patriots Hall of Famer Andre TippettA Giant of a Man in Football, Karate, and Everyday Integrity

Street life posed tough challenges for a boy growing up in Newark, New Jersey, in the 1960s. So NFL Hall of Famer Andre Tippett, who moved to that city from Alabama with his mother and sister when he was seven years old, turned to the martial arts to learn to defend himself. What he discovered in the dojo (karate studio) turned out to be much more than just self-defense on the street: he learned the critical importance of mind-body balance. “Karate instructors always talk about mind, body and spirit, and how you can’t have one without the other,” he says…

> Read more about Andre Tippett


Former NFL Player Ben UtechtGrit and Grace Creates Harmony On and Off the Field

Graced with many gifts and talents, Ben Utecht grew up in a loving family, surrounded by music. He readily admits that he was far from perfect. In is early years, he bought into the idea that he was better than others because of superficial things…

> Read more about Ben Utecht


Former NFL Player Damian VaughnCatapults Growth of Young, Collegiate and Pro Athletes by Revolutionizing Role of Parents and Coaches

Former NFL tight end Damian Vaughn has spent many years contemplating the meaning of success and how it can be used toward a greater purpose. His passion is helping top-tier athletes tap into their greater potential as role models and inspirations rather than just as sports heroes…

> Read more about Damian Vaughn


Cleveland Browns’ Benjamin Watson – Recovering Perfectionist Embraces Scripture and Receives a Gift of True Grace

Not every man can trace his spiritual awakening back to a moment with a giant teddy bear, but Benjamin Watson is unusual that way. He still remembers…

> Read more about Benjamin Watson


Former NFL Player Daniel Wilcox – Magnificent Role Model Inspires Kids to Give Life all They’ve Got!

Daniel Wilcox could have been a statistic. He grew up without a father in a community filled with violence and drugs. He never thought he would make it to 21…

> Read more about Daniel Wilcox


Former NFL Player Blaise Winter -Formidable Hardships Inspired His Mission to Strengthen the Core of Humankind

Blaise Winter was born to set the world on fire. His mission is to justify his birth, glorify his God, and inspire others…

> Read more about Blaise Winter


Cleveland Browns’ Usama Young - Radiant Spirit Lights Up the World On and Off the Field

Usama Young is an inspiring ball of energy who leaves a permanent imprint of hopefulness on everyone he meets. His upbeat attitude, genuine concern for others and his unswerving commitment to being the best man he can be will take him far in life — both on and off the field…

> Read more about Usama Young


Roger Staubach was the very first person to join the Insightful Player® team. To be named to this team, one must be a person of integrity, such as a current or former NFL player, who shares their personal message of hope for the sole purpose of lifting the spirits of all, especially children.

Roger Staubach, NFL Great

Launches the Premiere Insightful Player® article!

 

The premier Insightful Player® team member, Roger Staubach, is an NFL Hall of Famer, former Dallas Cowboys quarterback, dedicated family man, and high-integrity business man.

Roger is the epitome of an Insightful Player® team member because he has always shaped his life around his values. He is devoted to his Christian faith, his wife of 43 years, his 5 grown children, and his 14 grandchildren. He has an unwavering commitment to his friends, employees, and co-workers. All these combine to make him the perfect man to launch the Insightful Player® series.

Roger has led a soul centered life both on and off the field. (He is recognized for giving birth to the “Hail Mary Pass” in a 1975 wildcard playoff game against the highly favored Vikings. With only seconds left on the clock, and just before throwing the game-winning, 50-yard touchdown, he said a Hail Mary.) His faith was nurtured in his modest home in Cincinnati. Growing up as an only child with his parents and grandmother, Roger feels tremendous gratitude for having the loving and hard-working role models that his parents were.

Some of the guiding principles that took shape in Roger’s early life are:

  1. Put yourself in other people’s shoes. Respect and think of someone other than yourself.
  2. Many, many times there is a bigger agenda than our own, which we have to adhere to and support — that’s what teamwork is all about.
  3. Don’t be afraid to fail. Do the best you can and appreciate the chance.
  4. Have a permanence to your life with spiritual faith. If we live our life properly, that permanence, which is our salvation, is going to be there for us.
  5. Adversity reveals genius; prosperity conceals it. You can find the best within yourself and the best within others when things are tough. You must persevere. Don’t give up on your faith or sacrifice your values. You’ve got to fight through the tough times. You are going to be better for it.
  6. Start each day asking yourself what impact you are going to have on someone in a positive way. If you use this approach, you are going to enjoy your life while helping others enjoy theirs. What a good feeling you get when you get to help someone else.
  7. Having a mentor is a ‘must have’ for everybody. It is important to be with people who are doing the right thing. We need to be responsible to ourselves no matter who we are, or whatever circumstance we are in
  8. Make sure you have your priorities right. Put your family first and be responsible for the people who are counting on you.

These principles continue to guide his life every day.

Roger Staubach is an accomplished, wise, and kindhearted man committed to being the best he can possibly be while inspiring the same in those around him. He has unyielding perseverance, is highly respectful of others, and is steadfast in having his values guide his life.

Roger is the kind of role model we need in our world; the kind we want our young people to emulate and aspire to, and one we can use as a guide for our own lives. Because the sole purpose of the Insightful Player® series is to lift your spirits to awe-inspiring heights, I cannot think of a NFL player better suited to be in our premier spotlight.

The Insightful Player® series is brought to you by Coach Chrissy Carew, Master Certified Personal and Business Coach. Chrissy has been deeply inspired by her father, the late Coach Walter Carew, Sr. Her father is in several Halls of Fame as a high school football coach and baseball coach (as well as high school and college athlete). He used sports as a way to help kids build strong character and teach them valuable life skills. The Insightful Player® campaign was created to help make our world a much better place. To contact Chrissy Carew visit http://www.insightfulplayer.com or call 603-897-0610
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